A grandmother with her granddaughter

Grandparents are the father or mother of a person's own father or mother, being respectively a grandfather (also colloquially grandpa, grandad, gramps, or many other terms) and a grandmother (also grandma, granny, grandmama, or many other terms). Everyone has a maximum of four genetic grandparents, eight genetic great-grandparents, sixteen genetic great-great-grandparents, etc. Sometimes these numbers are lower and in the case of having only two or three grandparents sibling or half-sibling incest would be involved.

In cases where the parents are unwilling or unable to provide adequate care for their children, grandparents often take on the role of primary caregivers.

In traditional cultures, grandparents often had a direct and clear role in relation to the care and nurture of children.

One can also be a step-grandparent. A step-grandparent can be your parent's stepparent or your stepparent's parent. A stepparent's stepparent is called a step-step-grandparent, etc.

The various words for grandparents at times may also be used to refer to any elderly person, especially the terms gramps, granny, grandfather, and grandmother.

Also note that two individuals who share the same grandparents but are not siblings are called first cousins because your grandparents are also the parents of your aunts or uncles who are the siblings of your parents and the relation between your grandparents uncles aunts and first cousins is the same as your relation to your grandparents and parents.

Titles

The Favorite, by Georgios Iakovidis (1890)

A grandfather teaches his grandson to use a kick scooter

In writing, grandfather and grandmother are most common. In speech, grandpa and grandma are most common in the US, where grandfather/-mother is very rare when referring to a grandparent in person. In Britain and New England^[1] nan, nana, nanny and other variations are often used for grandmother in both writing and speech.

Numerous other variants exist, such as gramp and grandpap for grandfather and grandmom, grandmama and grammy for grandmother, etc. Because of the terms' unavoidable familiarity, there are many simplified versions as well, including grampy, granddaddy, grandpappy, etc.

Given that people may have two living sets of grandparents, some confusion arises from calling two people "grandpa" or "grandma", so often two of the other terms listed above are used for one set of grandparents. Another common solution is to call grandparents by their first names ("Grandpa George", "Grandma Anne", etc.) or by their family names ("Grandpa Jones", "Grandma Smith"). In America (where most families are of mixed ethnicity), many families call one set of grandparents by their ethnic names (i.e., Hispanic grandparents might be called "Abuelo" and "Abuela", French grandparents might be called "Pépère" and "Mémère", or Dutch and German grandparents might be called "Opa" and "Oma").

Great-grandparents

The parents of a grandparent are called all the same names (grandfather/-mother, grandpa/-ma, granddad/-am, etc.) with the prefix "great-" added. Thus, one's father's father's father is a great-grandfather. The same applies to one's great-grandparent's parents (great-great-grandparents). Also note that two individuals who share the same great-grandparents but are not siblings or first cousins are called Second Cousins to each other because second cousins are the grandchildren of your grandparent`s siblings.

History of the term

The use of the prefix "grand-" dates from the early 13th century, from Anglo-French graund. The term was used as a translation of Latin magnus.^[2] The prefix "great-" represents a direct translation of magnus to English.^[3] In Old English, the prefixes ealde- (old) and ieldra- (elder) were used (ealdefæder/-m?dor and ieldrafæder/-m?dor). A great-grandfather was called a þridda fæder (third father), a great-great-grandfather a f?owerða fæder (fourth father), etc.

Grandparents in non-Western culture

In traditional East Asian cultures influenced by Confucianism, filial piety is one of the highest moral values. Grandparents usually exercise their authority on family matters, and their descendants should obey them. This kind of structure has eased with the increasing influence of Western culture and the increasing number of nuclear families.

References

External links

• Grandparenting support database AARP
• Links to Australian grandparent support groups
• Family therapy for grandparents raising grandchildren in crisis

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